Simple is best. I like 55 gallons for a grow out tank.
I use an Aqua Clear 500. You can purchase these for $38.95 at http://www.aquacave.com/Aqua%20Clear.htm The AC500 comes with a big sponge and carbon. Don't use the carbon. Instead purchase another AC500 sponge for about $4.79.
I highly reccommend a prefilter sponge on the intake tube of the AC500. You can make this yourself from any fine pore sponge. Just slip it over the intake tube to prevent uneaten food and feces from being drawn into the AC500. Rinse the prefilter sponge everyday under the faucet to remove debris.
Right now there isn't a consensus on the best heater. Many of us have had failures with our ebo jaggers. I still have some ebos, Tronics and am trying two of the new Stainless steel Via Aqua heaters. This Pro Heat with the LCD temperature display will be the next one I try. It's $44.95 http://www.aquacave.com/FreePage21.htm
Aqua Cave is a sponsor of this site and has a banner at the bottom of the page. They also carry sponge filters if you prefer them to power filters.
For grow outs I reccomend a bare bottom tank. My babies are all in pH 7.8 and GH 11. You don't need to worry about soft water unitl they are adults and you want eggs to hatch. You don't want to try to match my water parameters or water parameters you've rad in a book. Your tap water is probably just fine. You may have to age it (that means to agitate it so the pH stabilizes) and warm it in a storage barrel. Pond pumps and hoses will save your back during the daily water changes.
p.s. There is tons of information here. Read through the water section next.