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Discus has been giving me lotsa pleasure and also enable me to meet many friends. But at the same time it has also took up a lot of my time hence neglecting other aspect of my life so now it's time to move on and hopefully when everything settle down later I would be able to come back to the hobby again. My site Discusrealms.com will still be around though.
I thank those who have supported me in discusrealms and I hope you continue to support me and jeff although I have given up the hobby, I have not gave up this site. You will still be able to see me and I will still be around to give advices if needed. Maybe I just need a good break after so many years. Once again thank you.
allan_mark76
10-08-2004, 03:40 AM
:'(
aloha_discus
10-08-2004, 05:04 AM
Aloha Sly, I applaud you. You putting something you enjoy on the backburner for something few of us are fortunate to have. A GREAT family. Take Care.
Ike
bikhu
10-08-2004, 05:56 AM
Sly,
You will be missed around here. It is important to folow what you know is right however and I respect and admire that. We will look forward to your return but in the meantime be safe, be happy and Be Peace!
peter
Ardan
10-08-2004, 07:12 AM
Best of luck to you, SLy!
I am sure someday you will be back into the hobby. 8) :)
etr63
10-08-2004, 09:16 AM
So many great people leaving the hobby. ??? It sad :'(
henryD
10-08-2004, 09:42 AM
WOW big surprise Sly...
Only thing I can say is you will be back. I have personal experience that say that...LOL
Sly wish you the best of luck and hope you will stick around.
Henry
GulfCoastDiscus
10-08-2004, 09:58 AM
Wow Sly not you too. Don't stay away too long. We need your expertise in this hobby. Take care friend,
Dan
Carol_Roberts
10-08-2004, 10:55 AM
Sorry to hear that - we'll miss you :-\
korbi_doc
10-08-2004, 11:04 AM
:'( :'( Yes, it's difficult to see so many leave the hobby. But it is a demanding one with no easy way to kick back, & family sure does come first, rightly so. We'll miss you Sly, Don't stay away too long. Hopefully you'll be back soon, do stay in touch, Dottie
Dave C
10-08-2004, 11:35 AM
Seeya Louis. Good luck.
Howie_W
10-08-2004, 11:41 AM
Hi Sly :wave:
It's always a pleasure reading your posts and especially seeing some of your pics!
Please continue to visit as time permits and best wishes to you!!!! :)
Howie
DarkDiscus
10-08-2004, 11:57 AM
Sly,
Let's not call it goodbye, how about a sabbatical?
I'm sure you will be back once you take a break and deal with what you need to!
In any case, good luck and take care!
John
Sly,
You have been a best friend to me and a mentor. I know this is just temp because it's in your blood. I know how you feel and how it has a hold of you because I'm the same. I also know at points of your life it can be a burden rather than fun. That is what you have at this time. As things settle down I can only hope that the lure of discus pulls you back again to what ever level you desire. You have been my friend and I know you will continue to be there in the future.
April
10-08-2004, 02:41 PM
Sly...please come and post..and say hi. your pics have inspired so many..and your knowledge..and i know you've helped so many people..and you are also like our eyes in Asia..to see what we dont get to see..and learn from .
Perhaps you could get yourself just one nice fishtank..with a few nice fishies in it..to enjoy.
well dont be a stranger..i consider you a very good friend.
im sure we all need a bit of a breaksometimes. ..keep in touch.
Cosmo
10-08-2004, 02:49 PM
bummer Sly.. know how it works though.. I got the old "you love your fish more than me" a few weeks ago while my tank was having problems and demanded more attention than usual... luckily she accepted the reason, the tank stabilized, and now things are back to normal, but.. I'm sure it'll come up again and I'll have to pull back some too..
Wish you all the best, and.. hurry back when the situation permits :)
Jim
brewmaster15
10-08-2004, 02:52 PM
Another Great one leaving the Hobby.. :-\ :'( :'( :'( I have known you a long time on these boards, and you have been a very positive influence on the Hobby. I am sorry to see you getting out Sly, but I understand...Probably better than Most. sometimes the passion for the Hobby and this fish consumes us until we lose ourselves...you'll be back when you find yourself again. :)
Take a break and get back in when you feel the time is right. Hope to see you around still.
-al
Glenn
10-08-2004, 08:06 PM
Sly you take a rest for a bit . I bet your back within 3 months these fish are in your blood bud .
limige
10-08-2004, 08:27 PM
sorry to hear that sly, take some time and come visit us!
i hope you can get back into things again before too long. i understand how demanding this hobby can be, it's easy to get so involved to loose sight of other aspects of life. hope to see you back soon!
mike
April
10-08-2004, 08:39 PM
Bibi has got to go.. its all her fault..sly has fallen head over heels for that new little one . ;D loves the pitter patter of little feet..and his fish dont have little feet. :P
Bibi will miss her fish Sly...how could you? maybe a goldfish?
What a pity Sly, you have wonderful fish and are breeding great quality. The hobby will miss you and so will i. Hope to see you about mate.
Rod
Don_Lee
10-08-2004, 11:29 PM
Slyly! How could you?? LOL my friend, I will await your return. I do not have discus now, but I know I will someday again and I am sure you will too. Keep in touch, take care of what you need to.
Don
Hi, Sly!!
I logged into SD this morning just to find you too are leaving the hobby for a bit.
Wishing you well and a safe return to the hobby (and this is for the both of us!!) :D
*Angie*
Discus_KC
10-09-2004, 09:55 AM
Sly,
I go to Reserve duty for a week and this happens ?? Best of luck to you. I know about having to put the passion on hold. But I'll tell you this. It's worse when you get back in !!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Jack
kpix99
10-09-2004, 02:05 PM
Sly,
Like Jeff said I agree! You have Been A great friend To me and My family. You have also been a great aset to the Discus Hobby and You will be missed. However it takes great courage to make a stand and I hope one day You will return real soon when You can.
We all love You and Will miss You Much!
Cary,Sue,Jack,Aron + Kyle
xoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxo
P.s
Even Though We have had are ups and Downs You will allways have a place in Our hearts :'(
Jason
10-09-2004, 06:34 PM
P.S Learn a thing or 2 from your interview..or should I say words of wisdom. "You got into the hobby to enjoy the fish not to slave away doing water changes and having other aspects of your life suffer because of it."
quoting you quoting me.........
Take your time, get things worked-out and back together.
Thanks for being a good friend and you know how to find me anytime.
ps. I'll take good care of you turq pair ;)
Lauren
10-10-2004, 03:57 PM
Good luck with everything to come and hopefully everyone at SD shall see you here again soon when things are running more smoothly :)
Martin_HONGKONG
10-12-2004, 12:20 PM
Sly!
We all need a break after awhile, and try to sort out what will be the next fish to keep. Resently I tried pleco. Little maintanence and a lot of fun! Water change once a week!
Martin
thanks guys although I have left the hobby but not the friends here, I will still drop by from time to time. Thanks for all the well wishes, it's time to move on. :)
wildthing
10-17-2004, 10:52 AM
" you gotta know when to hold them and know when to fold them"
good luck on your future endeavours.
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