Welcome to SD.
Many people finds us after they have experienced issues just like yours. The best thing to do is spend some time reviewing the different sections of the forum. Also take advantage of the "search" function if you need something specific.
If you can't find out your information here, it does not exist. Trust me, these people here have put lots of money, blood sweat and yes tears into this hobby and through trial and error, have posted positive and negative results.
So, sit back, grab a beer, coffee or... and enjoy the ride.