Lisa, every time someone gives you advise you do not wish to hear you call them rude. Please knock this off. The advise to rehome (even temporary) the fish is actually a very practical solution for your given situation. You said that you will be away for long periods of time which is not good for recovering fish.
As time allows please take some time to educate yourself on the keeping of these fish. From what you have posted and shown in pictures this is an area you and the fish would benefit from. Now after reading this and before you call me rude. Sit back and reread this thread. Please turn off the emotional response and think about what has been posted in this thread.