I've had good luck with Stendkers and do not suggest adding anything to your tap water. You definitely need to age your tap water for 24 hours with an airstone or pump running to aerate the water. This will fix your pH swing. If you don't age your water you will stress the fish out very quickly because of the pH fluctuations. Age your water and only add a dechlorinator (I like Seachem Safe), change the water completely every day, and they'll grow fast. As far as temperate goes, Hans will tell you 86, but nearly everyone here, myself included prefers 82. Make sure you do a 100% water change with aged water before the fish arrive.