Welcome Musicman,
Your introduction was wonderful. How about some photos? We love them!
Your description of how you arrived where you are is something we all go through here. I feel your pain on the old fish. I have a 75 gallon community tank that I would love to just clean out and start over. Those fish don't get much attention with a discus and reef tank in the house and darn if those things are hardy...We had no power for 2 days a few months back and I didn't even try to save them and they are just perfectly fine....The discus had a direct line from a borrowed generator and basked in their heated filtered tank through it all... Anyway, I am glad the changes renewed your interest. There is nothing better than having a clear focus again.
I hope you enjoy the information and members here. This is the perfect place to hang out with people who understand the passion of this hobby.
I am subscribing to your thread in hopes that you will share some images with us.
Jenene