JW:
You are right about the differing opinions. I have seen many articles from people keeping Discus in hard, high PH water. It's hard to know what their real success rate is.
I'm old-school (or just old). I started raising Discus back when Jack Wattley was one of the few in this country successfully breeding Discus. I was lucky that my tap water was always pretty close, since I prefer not to chase water parameters. I especially dislike using chemicals to constantly adjust my water. I was always very successful at raising them, but never really bread any.
When I started back into discus keeping, after an 18 year hiatus, I decided to take the "...if that just makes me more likely to succeed" approach. I installed an RO water system and perform twice weekly water changes. The RO system removes most of the minerals (I don't use the DI filter). For my money, that gives me a good starting point for my water, and good filtration takes care of the rest.
If you can handle the RO system, with water storage and transfer to your tanks, I would recommend taking this approach with your water.
Robert