1. Are you aging or using a conditioner to rid the water of chlorine? Your ph looks good.
2. When discus reach about 4.5-5 inches they should do better in a planted tank. Difficult to keep water pristine during grow out period with plants and substrate. But can be doable with lots more maintenance.
3.With planted and substrate and the bio-load you plan, you might need more than just sponges. I had a FX6 on the tank I had that size and it worked great for mechanical and bio filtration. Sponges are great but the can only do so much mechanically on larger tanks.
4.Not sure how you figured it out on how much water will need to be changed though automatic WC. Seems to me when doing automatic WC's you'll go though a lot more water because some of the water just put in some of it is going right back out again with a mix of new and old water.
5.Thick substrate will increase the likely hood of some nasty parasites and bacteria. But them again can be done with lots of regular cleaning. Black substrate and most pigeon blood discus will pepper and even the other discus can turn dark.
6.CO2 shouldn't be used unless you have the light and nutrients for fast growth. You need all 3 for this to work well. The atmospheric air pressure should do most plants just fine.
7.Ok there.
8.Lots of plants that do ok at 82f or so.
9.You should have an 82F for discus. Up to 86f when growing out for better results on eating and activity. This increases their metabolism and faster growth.
10.six-8 is great but if you buy a few more, one or two of the lesser fish can be culled later on.
11.Those fish should be ok but get corys that will take the warm water.
12. I would try some sort of tetra.
This is my opinion others will be different.
Are you getting grown out discus?
It would also be better to grow young discus out in a smaller bare bottom tank.