That's not necessarily true, although it can be for some discus. I have a pair and each of them will spawn with anything that'll pay attention to them even though they don't "appear" overly bonded. I've had other pairs that seem to develop such a tight bond that they won't pair up with anything else. I've found the better the overall parents, the closer the bond. I don't know if it's just Stendkers or not, but a friend once ordered around 50 adults. Maybe something about shipping being perceived as a near death experience, but was an immediate spawning frenzy in all the tanks, lol...
But the aggression can be something to be concerned about. Some can be so possessive of the fry that they endanger each other. I had male Eruption that killed every female he paired up with, as well as a female SS that killed the male.