Originally Posted by
HappyFace
I don't think some people realize how hard it is when you have a spouse that is against fish tanks. I made a deal with my husband that I would be buying all the discus I want at once and quarantine them for 5 weeks then I would take the quarantine tank back outside and not have it in the house anymore.
I ordered all the discus I wanted but after purchase I was told the discus weren't all in stock so I ended up with 2 shipments in 2 weeks then the person said the other ones I paid for wouldn't be in stock for an additional 3 weeks so I asked for a refund and I still want those other discus. I tried my best to get them all in one shipment but it didn't work.
I just had the quarantine set up for 2 weeks in the house if I set it up again right now for 5 weeks then in a few months buy more fish and set it up for 5 weeks my husband is going to flip.
I'm not talking about a little argument that blows over in a day or two I'm talking about weeks of him stonewalling me and going out behind my back doing things, staying out till 2 a.m.doing his best to get even with me.