Sasha
04-01-2013, 09:50 AM
I have a proven mated pair in a 37 gallon tank. The male (called "Scrib") is huge, thick and aggressive. The shy and submissive female has over several months become smaller and thinner to the point that I am very worried about her. She rarely eats, and if she eats, it is just a few bites and won't eat any more despite food being available in the tank. The most I can get her to eat are freeze-dried blackworms, which I have to break into bite-sized chunks and hand feed her while trying to keep the male away. Often times she will take the small chunk, and then she will spit it out for the male to eat.
Both the tank and the fish are otherwise very healthy with no other symptoms and good water quality.
I wonder if the male is "bullying" the female to the point of submission where he has "authority" over the food? And if so, what should my course of action be. (Note: I am not interested in breeding these fish again right now, and they have not spawned in several months.)
I am considering removing the male from the tank, but I only have one other tank to put him in - a 56 gallon stocked with 5 discus (two 6.5-7 inch adults (male and female pair) plus 3 four-inch juvies (offspring of the pair currently in the 37 gallon tank by themselves. I have no idea what sex the juvies are).
My options as I see them:
1. put Scrib in the 56 gallon - I worry about the fights that might occur between him and the other male, and I worry about overstocking.
2. put Scrib in the 56 gallon, and remove the female from the 56 gallon and put her in with the other small, shy female in the 37 gallon. Not sure if the very large female will also dominate my fragile girl?
3. put Scrib in the 56 gallon, and put one or two of the gentle juvies in with the shy female. Then the female will be with fish which are all about the same size.
I know I really should simply get a bigger tank and put them all together, but I do not have a good place in my home to accommodate a larger tank where I can still enjoy my fish.
How would you handle this situation? Thank you.
Both the tank and the fish are otherwise very healthy with no other symptoms and good water quality.
I wonder if the male is "bullying" the female to the point of submission where he has "authority" over the food? And if so, what should my course of action be. (Note: I am not interested in breeding these fish again right now, and they have not spawned in several months.)
I am considering removing the male from the tank, but I only have one other tank to put him in - a 56 gallon stocked with 5 discus (two 6.5-7 inch adults (male and female pair) plus 3 four-inch juvies (offspring of the pair currently in the 37 gallon tank by themselves. I have no idea what sex the juvies are).
My options as I see them:
1. put Scrib in the 56 gallon - I worry about the fights that might occur between him and the other male, and I worry about overstocking.
2. put Scrib in the 56 gallon, and remove the female from the 56 gallon and put her in with the other small, shy female in the 37 gallon. Not sure if the very large female will also dominate my fragile girl?
3. put Scrib in the 56 gallon, and put one or two of the gentle juvies in with the shy female. Then the female will be with fish which are all about the same size.
I know I really should simply get a bigger tank and put them all together, but I do not have a good place in my home to accommodate a larger tank where I can still enjoy my fish.
How would you handle this situation? Thank you.