Kindredspirit
06-20-2006, 10:59 PM
I just had the worst two hours I have ever experienced in my life!
It all started with my car going in the shop and we have a rental that my daughter can not drive cuz you need to be 21years old ~ Which is BS IMO ~ So today I had to take her to work at 6AM at our local mall ~ she was to be off at 3pm ~
I was to pick her up ~ but I might not be there til 5 as I needed to get off work ~ which was a possilblility she knew ~
Now I know Amber's every move ~ she knows where I am every second ~ I will know the same from her ~ life long rule in our house ~ No if ands or buts ~ Period ~ she always calls me the min she walks out of that mall ~ always! Or i will kick her *** and she knows it ~
At 3:15 I called her cell ~ no answer ~ left a message ~ at 3:30 I called her work and she left at right at 3. She told her boss that she was being picked up by her bf ~ as she offered to give her a ride home ~ Knowing my daughter the way I do ....I know she said that as not to inconvience her boss ~
By 4:00 I had not heard from her. I was okay.. I called her bf and left a vm for him too ~ 4:30pm I was tripping ~ big time ~ I called her phone again ~ no answer ~ I remember at one point thinking of here ...of Simply and posting a thread with her pic...how crazy was THAT??
5:02PM I was like not breathing very well ~ so many scenarios were going thru my mind ~ you have no idea ~ Two hours since she was off work ~ she ALWAYS calls me straight away ~ and today she was esp tired and wanted to come home ~ as I talked to her at noon ~
5:15 I called her bosses and they went to Mall Security to file a AMBER ALERT and told me to call the police ~ I called and got her bf who had not heard from her as well ~
5:20pm I was quite hysterical ~ make no mistake about that ~ I called 911 ~ I told them the facts and they said " Well if she told her boss her bf was picking her up then perhaps she is seeing someone on the sly?" "She prolly is cheating on him "! OMG ~ I went off on the operator ~ telling her this wasnt LAW and ORDER! The operator went on to say " she is 18 and an adult she probably just ran away ".... I was like this isnt happening to me ~
My two best friends were outta of state and my other friend was on his way ~ I never felt so helpless ~ is not time of the essence when someone goes missing? The first so many hours?
You guys ....I couldnt breathe ~ I swear ~ I just knew someone took her i knew it and her purse and cell were lying on the ground somewhere!!
The police said to stay home but I wanted to go to the mall ~ I didnt know what to do ~
They sent some units to the mall ~ I had called Amber at least 22 times and left vm's! Each worst then the one before it ~
I told God that I wld never ever complain about my life again if He wld just let her call ....
By this time my house was full ~ her bf was on his way to the mall from the Capitol where he works ~ and there were units of police at the mall and Mall Security had an AMBER ( how ironic ) ALERT in every store ....they said ~
6:13Pm my phone rings and it is my daughter ~ "Mom guess what! there are cops all over the mall"
I tossed my cookies in the sink .....
Marie ~ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/16/16_1_18.gif
It all started with my car going in the shop and we have a rental that my daughter can not drive cuz you need to be 21years old ~ Which is BS IMO ~ So today I had to take her to work at 6AM at our local mall ~ she was to be off at 3pm ~
I was to pick her up ~ but I might not be there til 5 as I needed to get off work ~ which was a possilblility she knew ~
Now I know Amber's every move ~ she knows where I am every second ~ I will know the same from her ~ life long rule in our house ~ No if ands or buts ~ Period ~ she always calls me the min she walks out of that mall ~ always! Or i will kick her *** and she knows it ~
At 3:15 I called her cell ~ no answer ~ left a message ~ at 3:30 I called her work and she left at right at 3. She told her boss that she was being picked up by her bf ~ as she offered to give her a ride home ~ Knowing my daughter the way I do ....I know she said that as not to inconvience her boss ~
By 4:00 I had not heard from her. I was okay.. I called her bf and left a vm for him too ~ 4:30pm I was tripping ~ big time ~ I called her phone again ~ no answer ~ I remember at one point thinking of here ...of Simply and posting a thread with her pic...how crazy was THAT??
5:02PM I was like not breathing very well ~ so many scenarios were going thru my mind ~ you have no idea ~ Two hours since she was off work ~ she ALWAYS calls me straight away ~ and today she was esp tired and wanted to come home ~ as I talked to her at noon ~
5:15 I called her bosses and they went to Mall Security to file a AMBER ALERT and told me to call the police ~ I called and got her bf who had not heard from her as well ~
5:20pm I was quite hysterical ~ make no mistake about that ~ I called 911 ~ I told them the facts and they said " Well if she told her boss her bf was picking her up then perhaps she is seeing someone on the sly?" "She prolly is cheating on him "! OMG ~ I went off on the operator ~ telling her this wasnt LAW and ORDER! The operator went on to say " she is 18 and an adult she probably just ran away ".... I was like this isnt happening to me ~
My two best friends were outta of state and my other friend was on his way ~ I never felt so helpless ~ is not time of the essence when someone goes missing? The first so many hours?
You guys ....I couldnt breathe ~ I swear ~ I just knew someone took her i knew it and her purse and cell were lying on the ground somewhere!!
The police said to stay home but I wanted to go to the mall ~ I didnt know what to do ~
They sent some units to the mall ~ I had called Amber at least 22 times and left vm's! Each worst then the one before it ~
I told God that I wld never ever complain about my life again if He wld just let her call ....
By this time my house was full ~ her bf was on his way to the mall from the Capitol where he works ~ and there were units of police at the mall and Mall Security had an AMBER ( how ironic ) ALERT in every store ....they said ~
6:13Pm my phone rings and it is my daughter ~ "Mom guess what! there are cops all over the mall"
I tossed my cookies in the sink .....
Marie ~ http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/16/16_1_18.gif